At Illuminate Colorado, we believe that strong families are the key to preventing child maltreatment. We incorporate five guiding principles, known as Protective Factors, into all the work that we do. Developed by the Center for the Study of Social Policy (CSSP), these factors provide parents and caregivers with the tools and support they need to create a safe and loving environment for their children.

Parental Resilience

The ability to manage stress from difficult life experiences with the support of family, friends, or the community.

“With support from others, I can keep going when times are hard.”

• • Make a list of ways you can take care of your mind, body, and spirit. Even five minutes a week of taking care of your own needs can make a big difference.

• • Children learn from how the adults around them get through both good and hard times. If you ask for support, it lets them know they can too!

• • Take a moment each day to notice and name something you’re grateful for. Practicing gratitude can have a powerful impact on your well-being.

Social Connections

Positive and meaningful relationships that create a sense that you matter to others and belong to a community.

“I know I am a valued member of my community.”

• • Ask for help and give help when needed. It is important for children to see adults practicing these skills.

• • Reach out to others. Talk about what is going on in your life. You’ll be amazed at how much better you feel.

• • Focus on nurturing relationships where you feel respected and appreciated.

Knowledge of Parenting & Child Development

The ability to learn what to expect as children grow up and using the parenting approaches of your culture to meet their needs.

“I know where to go to find out about parenting skills and my child’s developmental growth.”

• • Learn what to expect as your child grows.

• • Try new skills and tips to help your child progress and thrive.

• • Parenting is the greatest expression of culture, so root your parenting in the beliefs, values, and traditions that you are hoping to carry forward with your child.

Social & Emotional Competence of Children

The ability to help children learn how to communicate clearly, recognize and regulate their emotions, establish and maintain relationships, and develop other important life skills.

“I know how to help my children talk about their feelings.”

• • Respond warmly and consistently to your child. That may mean learning to regulate your own feelings and emotions.

• • Allow your child to express their emotions.

• • Create opportunities for your child to build healthy relationships with adults and other kids outside of the home.

Concrete Support

Having access to supports and services that build on a family’s strengths and meet their needs.

“I know where to turn for help.”

• • Know what help is available. Make a plan for what programs you might need if you were faced with unemployment or severe illness.

• • We all need help sometimes. Reach out and ask for support when needed.

• • Share information with others about programs and resources that have helped you.